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You want to drink less, but the fear of missing out keeps pulling you back. What if sobriety wasn’t about deprivation—but about gaining something bigger?

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For most of us, drinking is just what we do—to celebrate, to unwind, to feel at ease in social settings. It’s rarely questioned, and when it is, it’s often framed as a problem to fix.

But what if rethinking alcohol wasn’t about giving something up?

What if it was about gaining something bigger?

What Does It Mean to Be Sober Curious?

Being Sober Curious means exploring sobriety and drinking less—not from a place of restriction, but from a place of curiosity. It’s not about following strict rules or labeling yourself; it’s about asking questions and making intentional choices about alcohol.
But wait—what does that actually mean? And how does it differ from other approaches, like sobriety or moderation?

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Illustration of a person using a magnifying glass to examine bottles of alcohol, symbolizing exploration and choice. Represents the sober curious movement, questioning drinking habits, and redefining one's relationship with alcohol.

Sober Curious vs. Abstinence vs. Moderation: Which One Fits You?

  • Abstinence – Avoiding alcohol completely, often for religious, health, or recovery-related reasons.
  • Moderation – Drinking in controlled, intentional amounts—without feeling like alcohol dictates your choices.
  • Sober Curious – Rethinking your relationship with alcohol. Maybe that means drinking less, taking breaks, or choosing to be alcohol-free. The focus? Curiosity, not rigid rules.
  • Sobriety – Freeing yourself from alcohol’s hold. That could mean drinking in moderation, taking an extended break, or letting go of it entirely. The key? You define what sobriety means to you.
Graphic showing a person stepping into light, symbolizing clarity and energy. Challenges the myth that drinking less means deprivation, aligning with sober curiosity, alcohol-free lifestyle, and mindful drinking transformation.

Do You Have to Quit Completely? Why Sobriety Looks Different for Everyone?

Sobriety isn’t about following someone else’s rulebook. It’s about creating a life where alcohol no longer calls the shots. Whether that means cutting back or letting it go entirely, the choice is yours.
This curiosity isn’t driven by fear or the need to “fix” anything. It’s about exploring what’s possible when you drink less. I truly believe that limiting alcohol isn’t a restriction—it’s an opportunity. A gift, not a punishment.

 

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Sober Curiosity: Creating More Room for Joy & Freedom

When we rely too much on one source of enjoyment, it can take up more space than we ever intended—crowding out other experiences, shrinking our world, and limiting who we can become.
I believe that’s why so many people are drawn to the sober curious movement.
Because deep down, we know alcohol has taken up too much room in our lives.
And deep down, we know there’s more to life. More to us.

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Jeanette Hu

A former daily drinker turned psychotherapist and sober curiosity coach, Jeanette is obsessed with helping growth-minded individuals take a break from alcohol, cast aside the limiting beliefs that keep them stuck, and build new tools to let go of the crutch of bottles.

You’re here because life has called you to an adventure—to unlock your better self with...
  •  A renewed relationship with alcohol;
  • Deepened insights and an upgraded toolkit;
  • Positive habits that support personal growth;
  • And a life guided by purpose and fulfillment.

But before a hero can claim their ultimate prize, they must first navigate trials and move through stages, including:

Image of a contemplative individual reflecting on their decision to abstain from alcohol, recognizing the pros and cons of change, representing the contemplation stage.
Image of a determined individual researching sobriety options and experimenting with alcohol reduction, preparing to take action, representing the preparation stage
Inspiring image of a person radiating confidence and joy, having fully embraced an alcohol-free lifestyle, successfully maintaining their new habits, representing the maintenance stage.